Dear Earthlings (and disguised Spacelings),
It has been quite often for somebody to appear in front of me with this kind of look so obvious that it was written all over his/her plain face; the judgmental look. No, I wouldn’t call myself of being too sensitive and whatnot in interpreting body language but evidently, it was too noticeable to be ignored.
Actions speak louder than words. Call me a paranoid freak but as a matter of fact, I am actually not. What matters to me most is how my husband sees me, and how I see him. But to entirely say that I don’t give a damn about how people perceive me might be an act of improper contradicts. Well I am not gonna lie about it; I do care sometimes.
It is too devastating to see how somebody could have the shallowest idea of being better than anyone else. This is one issue that I have been keep repeating again and again but apparently, this kind of people never bothered to get the message. Why they never did is something I could relate to my earlier words; they might think they are too great themselves. Got me?
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You see, it is not cool at all to think that we are the best to everything we are. We might have the feelings that we are the best daughter/son, the best daughter-in-law/son-in-law, the best niece/nephew, the best mother/father, the best grandmother/grandfather (and the list goes one) but ask ourselves this; do others feel the same like we do?
If you ask me, I know that sometimes we have a tendency to think we have been the best for people in our circle. We wanted to believe that we are better than anyone else so we tend to despise others who are not up to our so-called righteousness standards. For all we care, it is better to be the poor victim rather than the blamed villain so others will take side with us and boycott the unfavorable ones. No?
To give advices is good, but never do it based on biased point of views. Sometimes this kind of people would come to us and claimed to be all nice and naive in giving their preachy two-cents opinion. They think they have been given the mandate to correct things just because they are the good people and we are the bad ones based only on what they have heard.
Ironically, how can you be so sure that the party who had been speaking-ill about the other one is not doing the same thing behind you? They might have talked about you to other people too, you know? So unless we have been given medals of being the best person in the whole world, it is wise to stop the act that shows we are better than anyone else. We are merely God's humble servants here.
Think properly, people. Think.
