Dear Earthlings (and disguised Spacelings),
Sometimes I just wonder of how some people could simply judge the others with no sense of relevancy. Argumentation based on their own points of view for matters that are out of their hands are just plain pathetic to me. Most of all, trying to reasoning with these kind of people is one hell of a job.
Let me clarify something, dear people. Instead of pointing fingers at things you are not certain, try to put yourselves into that person's shoes. Feel what he/she is experiencing at the comfort of their senses, not yours. Then only you can start judging that person based on what you feel about what he/she is going through.
Let me bring my case for example. It is true that my life is not as fine and dandy as others. But bear in mind, for this a life which I never signed up for. Do you think I love to be unemployed after I spent a minimum of five years studying for a degree scroll in a remote town built of nothing fancy before?
Besides, do you think I enjoy staying with parents and dragged The Hubster along to live together just because I did not manage to get a decent job for now? And do you think I get the pleasure from answering the same sort of questions every time I go back to my in-laws' place? I never asked for a life like that, anyway.
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| 'Back when we were engaged and I just graduated' |
Think wisely before you act something unpleasant to others. It is their lives that you are speaking ill of, not yours. You might see them incapable of things you already have in life; which is getting married, getting children, getting top-notch professions and such. But are you aware that everything in life is written by the hands of God?
Don't feel pity for me, or those similar unfortunate people that you see. I really hate things that evoking unneeded sympathy. The only thing we need from so-called fortunate group of people is please quit nosing around us. Yeah, we share this same beautiful world but it doesn't mean we have to share our personal lives with you. No?
Like The Hubster told me, we are two grown-up adults. And we never asked for any single opinion of how we should live our lives. It is time now to stop asking when somebody is going to get married, children, job or sort of questions. Instead of asking them, why don't you ask the Almighty God Himself (well, if only you dare to).
A person does not live the same way like the others, people!
