Dear Earthlings (and disguised Spacelings),
Often that when we feel too tired, we easily tend to be grouchy. It is one protruding moment when we feel everything we do is just not well appreciated or we might be taken for granted at all times. Easier words; a little above than useless. Well grumpy is my middle name so yeah, been there and done that.
That's why I tried not to write anything when the moment came. Being sensible, we tend to pour the emotions rather than rational facts into words when we feel angry at most. No? Overwhelming with mixed emotional discontent is one important state where we should not burst out those ugly words onto recorded material. Or else the scars will be left forever, no matter how hard you try to erase them in the future.
Being a stay-at-home-spouse is never an easy situation. Not that I whine about how fate has got me into but sometimes I just want to breathe in different breeze than the usual. Doing the same daily house chores with the same daily routine has almost gotten me crazy. Sometimes I feel too exhausted. Not only by physically but emotionally, too.
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| 'Back when we were younger. Grumpy as ever' |
Always, always when I started to get clouded with irrational emotion and thoughts, I rushed over to The Hubster and pour everything off my chest. The after-effect was a big, fast relieving (trust me). It was merely to avoid me doing anything silly by telling all sort of private feelings on my blog. That's one reason why I had stopped keeping a journal.
I think a diary would cause you to write more on bad things happened in your life rather than happiness. It is a sort of escaping devices to jot down all the broken-heart, dissatisfaction and resentment feelings at instant. When everything turns normal, all that left are hideous memories which unfortunately will haunt your life especially when it involves people around you.
Play safe by not airing your dirty laundry in public. Nowadays it has became a trend to update everything on social media and stuffs, including the things-in-private. I wonder how these people sleep at nights when everyone is gossiping about you on your mad-raging posts. Well stop blaming anyone when you have became the center of attention. Being infamous in that way is just sad. People just love hot stuffs, you know?
By the way I have finally discovered that to stop being grumpy, we shall stop being tired. Getting too caught up with work loads will only cause you a never ending fatigue. Stay calm and do your daily routine without hurrying them. Most important thing, ask for help whenever you need to. It is not wrong to tell the others that you are exhausted. So tell them this instant.
No worn-out situation, no grouchy-attitude, people!
